Be Your Own Best Friend

Hey Dolls, I know im late but I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Ive also been gone out of town in the middle of nowhere, so no internet :( Well anyways todays post was inspired by a video I saw on youtube by a girl named Jarmaine. Even though I do have a few really good close friends, I feel like you cant ever really trust anyone. Ive had my share of crappy friends and thats why I dont have aquaintances, I just have really good friends. So if you havent noticed this is kinda an advice post.

I think a good way to tell if you have a crappy friend is when you are always fighting about dumb stuff, or if they are always flaking on you to hangout with others or even worse their boyfriend, especially when you are in need of girl time.

Now-a-days sometimes the only people I can count on to be in my corner are my family. At the end of the day nothing else matters because they will always have your back, whether your choices are right or wrong. But if they are wrong you know you will always have that one person to give you their opinion and try to talk you out of it, but only because they love you and are looking out for you best interest.

It does get lonely sometimes when I think about all the friends I had but then I stop and say id rather be alone than in bad company...right? Well anyways if any of you have ever been a victim of having a bad friend dont worry there are other people out there waiting to meet you and make great memories. So ending this post I would like to show you the video I found, I love this girl, I think she is soo funny so go check out her channel on youtube.

You Got Caught!!!

Ok Ladies, Have you been cheated on or think you're being cheated on? Let me tell you what, if there was a show of hands, both of mine would be up. lol. The reason why im posting about this is because ive recently heard Tony Parker cheated on Eva Longoria, and all I have to say is What a dumb butt!! So, hearing about this made me think of back in the day when I was dating little boys, and how I was blinded by the "Love Blindfold". And as I started thinking about it, I started putting the pieces together and thinking how dumb was I? I thought only little boys played games but I guess not. So, here im going to share my top 5 signs of a cheating "boy". Just because im only mentioning 5, doesnt mean there arnt more. There are alot more signs so do you're research ladies!!

My number One sign of a cheater is the all too famous "Im busy" remark. If your man starts saying he has to work late, or has a meeting, or has to go to a dinner with co-workers and he works at burger king, Girl you need to be slapped if you believe him. Unfaithful guys need time to spend with the other woman, so thats when the lies start rolling in.

Okay, number two. Look for changes when it comes to his phone. If your man in tripping over his own flippin feet, and willing to eat dirt in order to get to his phone before you, when you are reaching for it... ummm yeah that screams CHEATER!! Someone who has something to hide will go to any lengths to make it happen. But men being the idiots that they are, arnt so good at it. Another phone sign is when you check his messages and calls and there just happens to be none. Deleting dity texts or unfamiliar numbers is always a sign.

Sign number three is when there are clouds of dust behind them on the way to the shower. A cheater cant get to shower to wash away the evidence, fast enough. Usually when a cheater comes back from a "meeting" and hops into the shower without even saying hi or giving any type of body contact, that means he is trying to wash away the scent of the other woman. So ladies stand by the front door or the restroom door when he comes home so it's inevitable to not come around you, and take a Big-O wiff of that puppy. lol.

The fourth sign would have to be that he isnt as affectionate as he used to be. If your sex life has dropped like a newborn giraffe, im sorry sista but he's getting it somewhere else. When he doesnt want to hold hands, cuddle, kiss or even hug thats pretty much your que to ask "Who's the other B****?"

The final sign for this list I would say is when he becomes defensive when you ask where he's been or any other questions making you suspect somethings going on. Usually what comes along with this defensiveness is him accusing you of being unfaithful because you are insecure about yourself or feel since you're cheating, so is he. He will try to use reverse phycology on you.

So there you have dolls, my top 5 signs of an unfaithful man. And like I said before these are not the only signs, there are alot more, so if you feel this list isnt sufficient enough to say he's cheating, look up other websites and do your research. If you find out he is cheating, yes its going to hurt but like all wounds it will heal. God didnt make only one species of animal, and all the clouds in the sky are not the same. So, move on, you can only go up from this downer of a situation. I hope you all enjoyed and thanks for taking the time to read. Stay happy and healthy and ill talk to you all soon.

Very Thankful!!

Hey dolls!! So ive been back for from visiting my family for a while and ive had writers block like CRAZY!! I swear I have been getting so frustrated lately because I know I have a couple of followers and you are expecting to read some updates. So here I am!! This post will be inspired by Thanksgiving. I would love to read what you all are thankful for, so I will share my blessings.

In no particular order I will start by saying the most obvious blessing im thankful for, and that is my family. I believe family is the best thing to have in your life. Family doesnt have to be blood, it can be your significant others family, or even just your friends. If you have a special tie to someone, that is family. A long time ago I read a quote and I dont know who wrote it or when but when ever I think of it, it makes me think of my family. And it goes something like this, " Dont make someone your everything, because when they're gone, you'll have no one."

Another thing im thankful for is my health and basically that im still alive I guess. Im not going to say im as healthy as a horse, but I will say I thank god I have not gotten seriously ill or have had a life threatening illness yet. And for those of you who are reading this and do have an illness or even just something small like a cold, god is great and there is always something brighter coming to put a smile on your face.

Iam also thankful for not having to go without. I have never not been able to put food in my family's belly or go without wearing a shirt on my back and shoes on my feet. God has blessed my family to where they have helped me not go through that. But what I want you all to know is that im not saying im better than those who have had struggles and have been through the situations I just mentioned. I see homeless people everyday living in the city and what I think when I see them is, maybe its god in disguise testing me. So when they ask for money I give what I can even if its a dollar. I understand that some of you may think im helping feed a drug user or alcoholic but I feel better about myself when I help out someone else so I try not to think about those things.

Iam thankful for soo much more but if I were to write out everything the list would be never ending. so im just going to end here and tell you all, if you all have things you are thankful for, enbrace them because sometimes those are the things that can get you through a hard time. Im in no way trying to say iam this church going, God is my savior kinda person because im not, but I will say I have my own way of being religious and so far it has given me a good life.

So I hope you enjoyed this and I would love to hear what you all are thankful for. Have a great night and stay happy and healthy and I will be updating more soon.

Happy Birthday Mia!!

Hey friends, how are you all doing tonight? So if you didnt know, today is Mia's 3rd birthday!! My baby is growing sooo fast. Since my family lives out in the country and I live in the city, we spent the day with adam's family. Today was a nice, quiet, family kinda day. With this new time going on, I felt like I could take advantage of it and sleep in an extra hour. So in this post I will be sharing Pictures and videos on what happened through out the day. And just to inform you all, I will be going out of town again. I will be leaving tomorrow morning and will return maybe friday. and if you read my post before you know that I will not have access to the internet, so I will not be posting untill I return. :[ Anywho enough with the words and more with the pics and videos. Enjoy!!



Nothing Like A Confetti Cake..mmmmm



Daddy Trying To Feed Miss Grumpy Some Pancakes



Not A Happy Camper When She's Woken From Her Beauty Sleep



Daddy And Mia Playing Her New Toy



Getting Ready To Go on A Walk



My Babies Walking

 

Look At That Smile







Mia Took This Pic On Our Walk

Eating Cake & Ice cream

In Need Of Help!!

Hello Friends. Tonights post will be a bit different from the usual fashion, a glimpse into my life kinda post. Iam thanking god I became a youtuber right about now. I just finished watching a video posted by kandee johnson, one of youtube's makeup gurus. She has one of the biggest hearts I have ever had a chance to see. The video she posted was about a girl named Kristie Tunick, who has a life taking illness called Still Person Syndrome (SPS). This illness causes her muscles to lock and makes it not only impossible to move, but is also very painfull. I believe the pain causes her to blackout and sometimes makes her stop breathing. In the middle of this horrible situatuion is a loving man. Kristie's fiance Brian Mendenhall, has been taking care of her, and dropping out of school to get a full time job as a waiter is what has been getting them threw this whole thing, which is not much. That is why im here to ask for help, in order to keep Kristie stay alive. The doctors have said she only has three weeks to live. By reading this you have done a good thing but to make a great thing im asking you to repost this video or post this blog post in your blog, facebook, myspace, twitter, whatever you may have. What we are trying to do is, by some miracle have somebody who can help her see this story and save her life. So down below is Kandee Johnsons video telling us a bit more about the story. under the video is how you can contact Kristie and some more info on how you can help. Thanks for your time and please help (if you can) save a life. Stay happy and healthy and ill see you all soon.

please click here: http://www.kandeej.com
contact Kristie with any media help via her "dream man" Brian:
702-506-1943
Contact her on CAREPAGES at: http://www.carepages.com/users/442045...
PLEASE PLEASE HELP KRISTIE!!

WATCH HER ABC NEWS clip on 20/20: http://abcnews.go.com/2020/sickness-h...

Mia's Early B-day Present!!!

Hey Dolls!! So as you all know, I went to visit my family back in my hometown this past week, and since you have to drive an hour in any direction to get to civilization we decided we would go to a flea market to spend some time together. I love flea markets, antique stores and dollar stores. lol. I feel if I get a deal on something cute or nice, I have accomplished something. lol. Well anyways as we were leaving the flea market, we saw a man selling chihuahua puppies!! And since Mias birthday is coming up on the 7th, and my neice's birthday is the 8th of december, my mother thought "why not?" So Here we are with 2 new puppies that are basically like newborns because they always want to be held and entertained and sleep all day and stay up all night. Well atleast I know im not ready for another baby. lol. On the down side since I live with adam and his parentals at the moment we cant bring the Gabby ( Mias puppy) with us. Which means we'll be visiting Abuella alot more. Yay!! Well anywho, enough with the words and more with the pics. Enjoy!!

Mias puppy Gabby

My neice's puppy booba lol

Well I hope you all enjoyed seeing our newest additions to the family. Stay happy and healthy and ill talk to you all soon.

"HEEL" Your Shopping Soul

Hello my wonderful friends!! I wanted to make up for the absence of last week, so tonight I will be showing you my fave shoes I came across while trying to see what was in this season for footwear. As a young, frugal, scrounging for pennies and dimes kinda girl I wanted to show yall some fab but affordable feet friends.



Yessir Army Lace Up Peep Toe Boot

$38.50







Leon 035 Zipper Trim Strappy B
 $19.99





Safari 17 Rosette Suede Bootie

$26.50





Thera Suede Peep Toe Bootie

 $14.99

 





Adalia Boot

Was: $36.50
Now: $28.50





 



Success 29N Suede Cuff Platform Boot

$35.50









Jones Patent Platform

$26.50





 



Colada 01 Suede Pump with Patent Heel

$28.50





So there you have it guys.  You can find all these and more fabulous shoes at your nearest Agaci store or go online at agacistore.com Hope you enjoyed and go check out what else Agaci has for you!

Oh How I Missed You!

Hey Dolls, Yes I know, I know I havent posted in a while. I just got back to civilization earlier today. I went to visit my family in my good ole hometown, and was there for a week. Let me tell you, not having internet was driving me crazy but spending time with my fam was much better. Since my hubby had to work on Halloween :[ I decided to just stay out there, and take Mia trick or treating in my old neighborhood. It was alot of fun and I got my workout of the year lol. So just wanted to show you all what Mia ended up being.



Yup she ended up being a cute little witch. She got sooo many compliments she didnt even know what to do with herself. I loved watching her face as she saw all the other little ones running around in their costumes. She's so funny, when we would walk up to a person to get her candies she would look in the bowl and take what she wanted instead of just letting them put the candy in her bag. lol. Well let me know how yalls Halloween went. Hope you all enjoyed!!