Ok Ladies, Have you been cheated on or think you're being cheated on? Let me tell you what, if there was a show of hands, both of mine would be up. lol. The reason why im posting about this is because ive recently heard Tony Parker cheated on Eva Longoria, and all I have to say is What a dumb butt!! So, hearing about this made me think of back in the day when I was dating little boys, and how I was blinded by the "Love Blindfold". And as I started thinking about it, I started putting the pieces together and thinking how dumb was I? I thought only little boys played games but I guess not. So, here im going to share my top 5 signs of a cheating "boy". Just because im only mentioning 5, doesnt mean there arnt more. There are alot more signs so do you're research ladies!!
My number One sign of a cheater is the all too famous "Im busy" remark. If your man starts saying he has to work late, or has a meeting, or has to go to a dinner with co-workers and he works at burger king, Girl you need to be slapped if you believe him. Unfaithful guys need time to spend with the other woman, so thats when the lies start rolling in.
Okay, number two. Look for changes when it comes to his phone. If your man in tripping over his own flippin feet, and willing to eat dirt in order to get to his phone before you, when you are reaching for it... ummm yeah that screams CHEATER!! Someone who has something to hide will go to any lengths to make it happen. But men being the idiots that they are, arnt so good at it. Another phone sign is when you check his messages and calls and there just happens to be none. Deleting dity texts or unfamiliar numbers is always a sign.
Sign number three is when there are clouds of dust behind them on the way to the shower. A cheater cant get to shower to wash away the evidence, fast enough. Usually when a cheater comes back from a "meeting" and hops into the shower without even saying hi or giving any type of body contact, that means he is trying to wash away the scent of the other woman. So ladies stand by the front door or the restroom door when he comes home so it's inevitable to not come around you, and take a Big-O wiff of that puppy. lol.
The fourth sign would have to be that he isnt as affectionate as he used to be. If your sex life has dropped like a newborn giraffe, im sorry sista but he's getting it somewhere else. When he doesnt want to hold hands, cuddle, kiss or even hug thats pretty much your que to ask "Who's the other B****?"
The final sign for this list I would say is when he becomes defensive when you ask where he's been or any other questions making you suspect somethings going on. Usually what comes along with this defensiveness is him accusing you of being unfaithful because you are insecure about yourself or feel since you're cheating, so is he. He will try to use reverse phycology on you.
So there you have dolls, my top 5 signs of an unfaithful man. And like I said before these are not the only signs, there are alot more, so if you feel this list isnt sufficient enough to say he's cheating, look up other websites and do your research. If you find out he is cheating, yes its going to hurt but like all wounds it will heal. God didnt make only one species of animal, and all the clouds in the sky are not the same. So, move on, you can only go up from this downer of a situation. I hope you all enjoyed and thanks for taking the time to read. Stay happy and healthy and ill talk to you all soon.
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